Sunday 21 December 2014

101 DATING TIPS PART 9



81. Pay attention.
Paying attention to your date is a must, if you want to make sure that you are indeed
dating someone who has no issues. Paying attention can help you identify signs, which
can tell you about the negative behavior of your potential partner. By doing this, you

would become more aware of the things that you need to consider, on deciding whether you want to see him or her again or not.
82. Stay away from your date’s home.
If it is still your first, second, third, or fourth date, you should stay away from your date’s home. This is because it is simply too soon to be invited over to a house, or inviting someone, unless you both want to go to the bedroom immediately, and it is your purpose of going out. If that is not the case though, only visit your date’s house when you are already in the latter stages of your relationship.
83. Be honest.
If you are really interested about the other person, then you should not hide it. Dating
should not be a game, since it can make you send out all the wrong messages. Instead,
you should be as honest as possible, so that your date can also see your true self. By
doing that, you would be able to build your relationship on the right path.

84. Show that you are interested.
Showing the other person that you are interested is a must, especially if you really are.
This is because it can build his or her self esteem, knowing that you may be looking
forward to seeing him or her again. With that, you both would become more excited in
seeing each other, and be able to enjoy each other’s company more.
85. Your mobile phone.
When you are on a date, one of the things that can annoy the other person is when you stop your conversation in order to answer a call, or read a text message. Therefore, you should turn off your mobile phone or put it in silent mode, prior to sitting in front of your date at the dining table. Just answer the messages when you go to the restroom.
86. Talking and listening.
Some people think that they need to talk a lot in order to impress their dates. However, you need to maintain a good balance in talking and listening when you are on a date. If you are doing most of the talking, then your date may not be interested in sharing some information to you or you simply are not giving them a chance to talk.
87. Talk about yourself positively.
You need to build yourself up in your date, so that you can sell yourself effectively.
Thus, you need to be aware of your positive traits. By doing that, you would be able to
talk about yourself in a more positive tone, which can impress the other person.
However, you need to be careful in doing it, so that you won’t become someone who is obnoxious.
88. Building your profile in online dating.
Since online dating is quite popular these days, then you should also take advantage of
it. When it comes to building up your profile, make sure to indicate whether you are
interested in a long term relationship or not. By doing this, you can effectively filter out
the persons who do not share the same goals as you do.
89. Tell a friend or a close relative that you are going on a date.
Since there are lots of crazy people these days, it is always a good idea to tell a friend
or a close relative about your date. You should tell them about the time and the venue
just to be on the safe side. To feel more secure though, you can always prefer to go on
a date in a more public venue.
90. You don’t have to research about your date’s ex.
One of the most important things in dating is to be yourself. Therefore, you should not
do your research about your date’s ex, since you may have a tendency to develop a
sense of insecurity because of that. Instead, focus on revealing your true self to your
date, so that he or she would be able to decide whether you are indeed the one that
they are looking for or not.

Sunday 30 November 2014

101 DATING TIPS PARTS 8



71. Meet new people and make new experiences.
If you always go through the same daily routine that you are used to, even on
weekends, then you may not be able to get a date that could change your life. Thus,
you need to put some variety into your life, by going to new and interesting places,
where you could meet new people. By doing that, you won’t just be relying on your luck on scoring a date, but you are making things happen on your own.
72. To enjoy dating, you need to invest time and effort.
There may be times when you don’t feel like going out for a date. However, since you
have already set the time, and you don’t want to make a fool of someone else, then you need to do it. The date may not be that great, but there is also a good possibility that it would. Therefore, aside from investing time and effort, you should also take a chance.
73. Don’t expect too much from people.
When you expect too much from your date, you may end up getting disappointed about him or her. The best way to do it is to not expect anything from someone, which you are not also capable of doing by yourself. Aside from that, it is best to expect less from them, so that you would get surprised when your date does something great that you are not expecting.
74. Getting to know your date.
Getting to know your date is one of the best things that you can do, in order to see if you can really build a lasting relationship with them. Thus, you need to ask questions about what your date believes in, what he or she is planning for her life, what his or her goals are, and more. Aside from asking questions though, you should also observe if they are living the way they say they are.
75. Don’t be too fast in writing off somebody.
If you are not able to hit it off right away on your first date, there is no need to write off somebody right away. This is because, it is very possible that you or your date may not be comfortable with you yet. In most cases, it takes around 2 or 3 dates, before you could get a sense, whether you are really interested in the person or not.
76. Never force yourself to liking someone.
Forcing yourself to liking someone is never a good idea, unless you simply want to try it
out. It does not mean that if your date is the nicest one you have went out with that you

should like him. This is because being nice is not the only requirement for a relationship to grow. You also need to share common interests and values, so that you can agree on lots of things.
77. Lazy communication.
There are certain persons who communicate only through text, emails, or instant
messages. If you want a more open relationship, then you should avoid these types of
persons. This is because these ones usually do not want to reveal themselves to other
individuals. Aside from that, they may also become lazy on their relationships.
78. Can the other person give you what you want in a relationship?
This is a question that you need to ask to yourself, especially when you have taken
further steps in your relationship, after dating a number of times. This is because you
want to make sure that you are investing on something that is worth every minute of
your time. Aside from that, it can also prevent you from expecting too much from
someone.
79. Be careful in telling your date about your past relationships.
Your first and second dates are not the best times in telling your date about your past
relationships. This is because it can make the other person be bored with all your past
stories. You should know that your date is interested in you, and not your past. Aside
from that, your information about your past relationships should not be shared to
someone whom you do not trust fully yet.
80. Going to movies.
Watching movies should not be done on your first few dates. This is because these
dates should be the stage where you want to get to know each other well. When you go inside the movie theater, on top of being too dark, it won’t allow you to talk to each other well. In relation to this, on these first few dates, you should do something, which
involves lots of interaction.

Sunday 16 November 2014

101 DATING TIPS PART 7



61. You are not in a relationship yet on your first date.
This is one of the most important things that you need to remember when you go on
your first date. You are not in a relationship yet, since you don’t know each other that
well. Thus, put some boundaries when it comes to sharing stories. Aside from that, you
should also avoid acting like you are your date’s girlfriend or boyfriend, since that would just scare them off.

62. Know your limits.
You limits can sometimes tell you who you really are. Therefore, it is best that you
become more aware of it. Aside from that, when you know what your limits are, you can always do something in order to go beyond it. Just make sure that you stay within the boundaries, so that you could still be able to portray the person that you really are.
63. You are worthy.
If you are awed by the presence of your date, you should take control of yourself, by
knowing that you are indeed worthy to be his or her date. By doing this, you can
become more confident of yourself. Aside from that, if you end up having a relationship with that particular person, it would create a balance between you, which is also very important.
64. Enjoying dating does not mean you have to be blind.
You don’t need to be blind in order to enjoy dating. Many people have a tendency to
meet the needs of others, in which they become blind and forget to see their own
needs. Thus, it creates an imbalance in a relationship, which is not healthy. Therefore,
you should always keep an open ear and an open mind in having a relationship. This
way, you would be able to have a relationship, which is not one sided.
65. It is not a requirement for you to be interested when someone is interested in you.
You could easily tell if your date is genuinely interested in you. However, this does not
mean that you also need to become interested in him or her. When a person shows an
interest in you, you don’t need to reciprocate it, if you don’t want to. This is because if
you force yourself into doing that, you would just be lying to yourself, and be misleading the other person.
66. Finding your type.
When a person says that his or her “type” is this or that, it means that he or she has
some preconceived ideas about the person who he or she is attracted to. However, if
dating your “type” does not provide you a fulfilling and healthy relationship, then you
should let go of your preconceived ideas, and become more open minded about dating.
67. Don’t date someone who only communicates through text.
If someone is talking or communicating to you only through text messages, then it is
best not to stay in constant communication with them anymore. This is because, in most cases, he or she is seeing you as someone who is good for just a booty call. Thus, it is best to go out with persons who respect you enough to contact you by giving you a call.
68. Do your research.
No matter how the other person shows you how he or she is interested in you, in which he or she initiates the first steps to get into a date with you, you should not be
complacent, and still do your research. This is because, you don’t really know what their intentions are. With thorough research, you can feel safer in dating the person, aside from the fact that it can also help you see whether he is attached or not.
69. Ask questions.
Before going into your third date, you should know whether a person is still trying to get over an ex, is married, or has just been separated. To achieve that, you need to ask
questions regarding all of these. If you can’t do it on your first date, then make sure to
do it on the second date so that you are assured that you are not wasting your time on
him or her.
70. Don’t cloud your judgment.
If you focus too much on the achievements of a person or how much the person is
earning on a monthly basis, it can lead you to make incorrect conclusions about people. Thus, you need to look pass that, so that you would be able to see what the person is really made of. Talk to your date and listen attentively, so that you can see the real person inside.

Sunday 2 November 2014

101 DATING TIPS PART 6



51. No sex talks.
No sex talks should be a rule that you need to follow, especially in first dates. This is
because first and second dates are usually the time when you get to know the other
person, who can be your potential boyfriend or girlfriend. Talking about sex might give
the wrong impression about your intentions, which can make the other person feel
uncomfortable.
52. Be nice.
Being nice can mean a lot of things, especially for a guy. Nice can mean desirable,
normal, presentable, trustable, helpful, or friendly; and, lots of women are actually on
the lookout for the nice guys. Thus, taking note of these things can help you make a
good impression on your dates.
53. What to do with your apartment.
Whether you are a boy or a girl, you need to come up with an apartment that makes you look more mature, especially if you are approaching a stage, where you are planning to invite your date inside. The apartment should be tidy and clean, and it should be free from posters. Instead, decorate your apartment in a more mature way, and get it organized well, so that you can impress your date.
54. Calling him or her.
If he or she gives you their contact number after a date, you should not call them a day
after. Calling just a day after your date is too soon, which can scare your date away. It
gives an impression that you are too eager in listening to his or her voice. Thus, it is
best if you give him or her a call only after 2 to 4 days after you meet them for the first
time.
55. Make memories.
If you are dating the girl of your dreams, make sure to do something that would make
memories. You might be glad that you were able to strike a stimulating conversation
with her at the bar, but it may not be enough for your date to be memorable. To achieve that, you should do something different, such as bringing her to the zoo, to a circus, or even just a nice walk in the park.
56. Dating is discovering.
Dating is actually a stage in a relationship where you would begin to discover certain
things about an individual. Thus, it is best that you have a good conversation with your
date, so that you would be able to know him or her better. Knowing your date better
would offer you a chance to see if you really are compatible or not.
57. Sharing common values.
Dating can provide you a chance to know whether you and your date share common
values. Although sexual chemistry and sharing common interests are two important
things to get started on a relationship, sharing common values is much more important, since it can cultivate a more lasting relationship. Thus, it is best that you take advantage of dating to find out more about it.
58. Dating is not something like a vocation.
Dating is not a vocation. Therefore, one of your main objectives in dating should be to
have fun in meeting new people. It is not something that you need to do in order to have a life. Although there are lots of things that you need to take note of when it comes to dating, it shouldn’t be treated as something that you really need to perform well on. Thus, have some fun, so that you can be yourself in dating.
59. Never date when you are not over your ex.
If you are not over your ex yet, then you should not go on dates. This is because your
emotions can end up destroying all your dates. You might engage into self-pity while
you are talking with your dates, aside from talking all about your ex and his or her
shortcomings. Thus, make sure that you are completely over your ex prior to dating, so
that your potential partners won’t avoid you.
60. Online dating is just one of your options in meeting people.
Many people today engage into online dating, especially those who are quite busy with
their own careers. However, online dating should just be viewed as a way to increasing
your chances of meeting more people whom you may be able to date. Thus, it is just
one of the many options that you have when it comes to that. You should still go out,
and meet new people personally, so that you can have a more interesting life.

Sunday 19 October 2014

101 DATING TIPS PART 5



41. Learn how to read palms.
Becoming a palm reader can impress your date, aside from the fact that it can give you
a chance to hold her hands. Reading your date’s palms would create a more relaxed
atmosphere, between you and her. Thus, it can pave the way to more interesting
conversations. Aside from that, it can also make her more comfortable of the fact that
you are touching her.
42. Be polite but don’t overdo it.
Although opening doors to a woman is indeed a polite thing to do, it is best that you
don’t overdo it. This is because women today do not want to feel like they are helpless
persons. Thus, it is best if you do it with caution from this day on, so that you won’t be
offending your date, by being too polite.
43. Business cards.
If you want your dates to have something that he or she can remember you with, then
you should bring with you a number of business cards when you go out with them.
Although the best thing to do to be remembered well is to impress your date, having
business cards can also provide a unique impression.
44. Doing little things.
If you have been dating someone for quite some time already and you want to make
him or her feel special, then you should do little things for your date. Giving her a flower from time to time, or treating him for a snack would go a long way, as far as cultivating your relationship is concerned.
45. Never stalk.
When you have gone out with a person whom you really like and you want to see him or her more, it is not a good idea to stalk them. This is because, it can become quite
uncomfortable for a person to see his or her date, on every place that they visit. If you
want to see your date more, then you should establish contact with them, and see if he or she is still interested.
46. Dancing.
Learning how to dance would give you lots of benefits, aside from gaining a more
flexible body. It can actually help in impressing your date. A man can easily become
impressed if he sees that his potential partner is a good dancer, since it shows him how
sexy she can be. Aside from that, dancing with each other can create a more
comfortable environment between the two persons.
47. The things you need to know on the first date.
There are lots of things that you need to know about your date on the first time you go
out with them. One of which would be his or her dislikes, since it can save you
headaches. Aside from that, it is very important to know if he or she is currently involved with someone or is married, so that you would know if he or she is worth your time.
48. Starting or keeping a conversation going.
There are lots of things that you can say in order to start or keep a conversation going.
One of the things that you can do is to compliment her. Aside from that, you can also
ask your date about how their day went by. Moreover, asking questions, especially
those that may require your date an explanation about his or her answer is also a good
idea.
49. Making compliments.
For a man, making compliments on the woman he is dating is one of the best ways to
make her feel appreciated. This is because women in most cases, share a fear about
not being attractive on certain occasions. Therefore, if you want to make your date more comfortable with you, then you should compliment how her hair looks like, how her perfume smells so good, and such.
50. Be successful.
If you have gone through a good number of dates already, you would realize that in
most cases, topics in a conversation can include where you have been, what you have
achieved, and many more. Thus, if you have attained success in life, then there is a
good chance that your date would be impressed by your life story.

Sunday 5 October 2014

101 DATING TIPS PART 4



31. You are serious about your future.

When you show your date that you are serious about your future, then it provides them with reassurance that you can also be serious about them. Although your date may not be looking for a long term relationship, it is still best if you treat him or her as someone who could be your potential partner, especially if you really like them.
32. Be someone your date can introduce to her parents.
If you are serious about your date, then you should give him or her an impression that
you are worthy to be introduced to your date’s parents. This means that you need to
become presentable, by dressing and behaving appropriately. This does not mean that
you need to become too serious though. Telling a joke or two would definitely make you more comfortable with each other.
33. Never interrupt.
Interrupting someone while he or she is talking is not a good idea, especially on a date.
Unless if you want to annoy your date, you should never interrupt while he or she is
talking, since it can be viewed as a sign of disrespect. Always let your date finish what
he or she is saying, so that you would also be able to understand what they are trying to say.
34. Don’t be a whiner.
When you are on a date, one of the worst things that you can do is to become a whiner. A whiner often complains about everything, and always tell his or herself that he or she is a loser. Being a whiner on a date is not just annoying, but it can make the other person wish that he or she did not go out with you after all.
35. Don’t be a crybaby.
A crybaby is someone who always talks about his or her past mistakes, problems, or
past relationship failures. More often than not, crybabies are looking for shoulders to
lean on. However, becoming a shoulder to lean on is not the main purpose of going on
a date. Thus, you can’t expect your date to offer you his or her shoulder once you vent
out of your feelings regarding your experiences in the past.
36. Let your date talk.
If you want your date to have a good time, then let them talk. People always appreciate it when someone asks for their opinion about something, in which they would enjoy talking about the reasons they say certain things are good or bad. To achieve this, all you actually have to do is to ask open-ended questions.
37. Be a friend to your date.
Becoming a friend to your date is not a bad idea, especially if you have already dated a
couple of times. When you become an understanding friend to your date, then he or she will be grateful about it. To be a friend to your date, you simply need to listen to them whenever they need to vent out their emotions about certain things.
38. Trust.
Lots of people do not open up too much or invest too much emotions on their dates or
potential partners. This is because, they are afraid of getting hurt, or they were hurt
before. Thus, it is best that you become a person whom your date can trust. By doing
that, you would become closer to your date, once he or she gains more trust in you.
39. Touching your date.

For a man, if his date touches him, he can interpret it as something positive. However,
for women, touching them on the first date may not be a good idea, because some may become offended by it. Only touch a woman when she becomes more comfortable with you, in which you already engage into dancing, or if she touches you when you tell jokes.
40. Mysterious.
Some people love dating a mysterious person since they love to slowly uncover things
about him or her, as they go on more dates; and, this is especially true to most women. Being mysterious means that you give your date an idea about what you are, but you are not going into more details about it. It leaves them a feeling of hanging, in which they would want to know you more.

Sunday 28 September 2014

101 DATING TIPS PART 3



21. Smile on your date.
When you smile, everyone else around you would feel like smiling as well, including
your date. Thus, it would encourage a more positive environment between you and your potential partner. Smiling can lead to a more enjoyable conversation, which can make you and your date have more fun while you are both enjoying your meal.

22. Your posture.
Becoming more conscious on your posture can provide you with lots of benefits in terms of your health, as well as your date. This is because it can show your date that you are a strong and an independent individual. Aside from that, it would make you feel more confident, aside from making you feel that you are taller.
23. Shaving.
Shaving is something that both men and women should do, prior to going on a date. For men, having a well shaved face would impress most women, since women see it as a sign of a man’s cleanliness. For women, it is best that they shave their underarms,

since a man could get easily turned off if he sees that his date has hair in that part of her
24. Being conscious of your voice.
To sound more mature, it is best that you gain better control of your voice. Maintaining a calmed and low toned voice is the best way to do it. This is because if you talk in a high tone or with cracking sounds, then your date would have a tendency to see you as someone who is immature. Thus, it is best if you train yourself for this.
25. Your smell.
Smelling good is very important on a date. Thus, using a good perfume or even just a
good smelling cologne would already impress your date. Aside from that, you should
always make sure that you wear a reliable deodorant, since if you sweat and its odor
mixes with your perfume, then you might need to kiss your chances of having a second
date goodbye.
26. Taboo subjects.
Picking the right kinds of topics for your conversation is one of the most important things that you need to take note of, while you are on a date. To make it easier though, you should avoid talking about subjects that are taboo, since it would not encourage a more relaxing environment. Focus on more lighter topics, so that you and your date would enjoy the conversation more.
27. Avoid a bad mood.
Anything that can cause someone to have a bad mood should be avoided in any case,
when you are on a date. This is because having a bad mood can make a dream date
into a nightmare. Thus, it is best that you always focus on the positive side of things.
Aside from that, you should also avoid sarcasm. Moreover, it is never a good idea to be
late on your first date.
28. Use the name of your date.
Using the name of your date all throughout the night on your conversation would help
you a lot. By doing that, you would actually be helping yourself in remembering his or
her name, since you are constantly saying it. Aside from that, it can also create a more
intimate atmosphere between you and your date.
29. Use different perfumes or colognes.
If you have been going out with a woman or a man for several occasions, then you
should change your perfume or cologne, each time you go out with your date. This is
because variety is the spice of life. Aside from that, you can actually impress your date
by asking them about what type of cologne he or she likes best, and wear it on the next date.
30. Stay fit.
Staying as fit as you can be would make you more attractive, aside from the fact that it
would also boost your self esteem. Because of that, you would be able portray a more
confident self when you meet with your date for the first time. Therefore, it is time that you get some exercise on a regular basis, and combine it with a healthy diet.

Sunday 14 September 2014

101 DATING TIPS PART 2



11. Get to know yourself better.
To enjoy dating more, you need to know yourself better. This means you should
determine what you like, what your interests are, what your goals are, and such. By
taking note of these things, you will be guided better in choosing your dates. However, it is always a better idea to get out of your comfort zone from time to time to try new
things.
12. Avoid negative individuals.
When you are around negative individuals, it would affect your mindset and it can also
affect your judgment in a negative way. This is because when you are near them, you
might become one of them. Therefore, to enjoy your dates, you should always surround yourself with positive individuals, so that prior to meeting up with him or her, you have a positive mindset.
13. Engaging into phone or online sex.
Engaging into online or phone sex is not a good idea. This is because you cannot
expect anything from it, but just a waste of your time. This is because people who do
these sorts of things often are involve with it just to while away their extra time. Thus, if you participate in it, then you cannot expect them to respect you.
14. Acknowledge the presence of dubious behavior.
If you have been with lots of failed relationships, then you must realize that many of
these breakups, could have been prevented, if you acknowledge the presence of
dubious behavior in the early stages of the relationship, or during your dating times.
Therefore, if you see these things on your date, then you should confront him or her
about it, or simply look for another one.
15. Have a life.
If you have found a date whom you really like, it is very important that you are still aware of your priorities. Thus, you should not become dependent on him or her, so that he would see you as someone who is independent and confident. If you won’t focus on having your own life, then you might end up neglecting yourself, your friends, family, or even your work. 7

16. Criticizing the date.
You won’t be able to gain lots of things if you criticize your date by talking about him or her with your friends. Always keep in mind that you also do not want to be criticized on your actions. Thus, if you simply don’t like your date, then you should be mature enough not to set up another encounter with the person.
17. Control your drinks.
Drinking a bottle or two of your favorite beer while you are dating is not a sin. However, you should limit the number of bottles you consume, since you might end up losing control of yourself when you have too much to drink. Thus, if you tend to over drink, then you should avoid it by all means, since you might lose your chances of starting a relationship with your date.
18. Out of your league.
There is always a tendency to bring down yourself, when you think that your date is
simply out of your league. This way of thinking about your self worth should not be
encouraged, since if you tend to believe that you are not good enough for a certain
individual, then you may end up with someone who is also not good enough, or simply
another person who thinks the same way as you do. Thus, it is time to become more
confident, so that you can find the person that you really are looking for.
19. Determine what you really want out of dating.
In determining what you really want in dating, you should be able to prevent wasting
yours and someone else’s time. Thus, you need to determine whether you are dating to start a brand new relationship, to simply have fun, or to pass your time. By doing that, you can also base your search for your date on it, to find the right person.
20. Fix yourself up for the date.
When you make an effort on your appearance on your date, you can increase the
chances of having a good time in it. This is because it can make you feel good about
yourself, and increase your self confidence. Aside from that, you can also ensure to
have the right mindset, which can prepare you to have a positive conversation with him or her.

Sunday 31 August 2014

101 DATING TIPS



1. Don’t take dating too seriously.
This basically means that you should enjoy your dates more. Aside from that, you
should also view dating as something that can offer you an opportunity to meet new
people and socialize. Moreover, it can also offer you a potential to finding someone
whom you can build a relationship with.
2. Don’t date out of desperation.
Never date just because you are desperate of having a relationship. This is because it
can lead to having someone whom you may want to change for the better, in the future. Aside from that, since desperation can cloud your judgment, you may end up with someone who will just make you more insecure.
3. Don’t date other people to make someone jealous.
When you are dating another person just to make someone jealous about it, then you
are not doing anyone a favour. This is because; you might end up showing the other
person that you really like him or her. Aside from that, chances are, you might also
suggest that you really are enjoying yourself with another company when you are not.
4. Practice caution on multiple dating.
When you are dating a number of men or women, you might end up stressing yourself
out. This is because multiple dating is never easy, and it needs you to become very
organized. Although you may be enjoying the variety of persons multiple dating can
offer to you, it is still less stressful when you are not always worrying about sending the wrong text messages or emails to the wrong person.
5. Be yourself.
Being yourself in dating can go a long way, especially if you are on a quest to finding a
person to have a healthy relationship with. This is because when you won’t be hiding
anything from your date, you can be assured that he would be accepting you just the
way you are, if your relationship grows.
6. Don’t date to play games.
Dating can involve emotions of people who are included in it. Therefore, if you are
looking at date, as something that you enjoy just like your games, then you should
rethink it. This is because playing games with people’s emotions is not a good idea.
Thus, it is best to see it as something that is serious, since, just like you, other people
also do not want to get hurt.
7. Lending money to your date.
If you want to lend money to your date, you have to make sure that you are already in a relationship. Aside from that, you should also trust him or her. This is because if you
lend someone money, whom you are not in a deep relationship with, then there is a
huge possibility that he or she won’t be able to pay you with the money you lent.
8. Enjoy dating not just for sex.
When you are enjoying your sexual interactions, it can affect your decision making,
which can cause negative results. Therefore, it is always suggested not to sleep with
someone on the first few dates. By doing that, you can focus more on getting to know

the other person, which may include discovering common values.
9. Get out of the house.
Although online dating is quite popular these days, it is always better to go out in order
to find dates. This is because dating offline is more fun, due to the fact that you get to
meet your date personally. Aside from that, when you go outside, it increases your
dating potentials further, which can help you end up with someone whom you really
enjoy being with.

10. Take a break.
Taking a break from dating can be a good idea, especially if it is making you more
miserable. A break from dating can be made for a period of 3 to 6 months. In taking a
break, it can provide you with time to rediscover yourself. This basically means that it
can offer you more time in getting involved with a hobby, or catching up with your
friends.

Friday 29 August 2014

WHAT EVERY WOMAN WANTS



WHAT EVERY
WOMAN WANTS
IS:

  • Rekindling.......................................AROUSE
  • Love............................TO FEEL A PASSION
  • Intimacy.........PRIVATE & VERY PERSONAL
LOVE, a state of mind, only the wise or
lucky ever find. And having found it, only
the brave can make it flourish until the grave.
Women like romance. And let's not forget that men
enjoy it, too. Though no one has a foolproof formula
for romance, words can make the difference. Romantic
Loving Words can be fun, playful, serious, or silly.
They can be healing, encouraging, satisfying, and
wonderful. Sometimes they come at us all at once, but
often just a little at a time.
No matter how romantic words are used, you are a
lucky person if you are in a relationship where Loving
Words are shared like this love note.

Tuesday 3 June 2014

RULES OF ETIQUETTE (DECENT BEHAVIOUR)



What is Etiquette?

Etiquette simply means a set of rules of good manners and decent behaviours, which enable individual, imbibe certain attributes that will make everyone around him or her feel comfortable, happy and welcome. In turn, a decently behaved individual earns for himself or herself admiration and respect from the society.

Study and carefully observe the following DOs and DON’Ts. They will guide you to be of good behaviour.

1) DO; remember that the first rule of etiquette is ‘respect yourself’

2) DO; remember that the second rule of etiquette and life ‘respect other people’ especially the elderly ones’.

3) DON’T give somebody and ugly look when he or she comes visiting as if you hate the person, even if you don’t like his or her face.

4) DON’T sneeze noisily when you are in the midst of people or cough in such a way that will cause embarrassment or attract undue attention to yourself.

5) DO; cover your mouth and nostrils with handkerchief whenever you sneeze or cough in the midst of people.

6) DON’T stretch your hand to a woman (if you are male) for a handshake unless she is a younger relation of yours or junior in school.

7) DO; receive the handshake of your boss or senior colleague or an elderly person or someone of higher status in the society or in school than yourself with a bow.

8) DON’T read another person’s letter, however intimate your relation is, unless you are permitted by the owner to do so.

9) DON’T open another person’s diary to read the contents for whatever reason.

10) DON’T wear the football jersey outside the playing arena.

11) DON’T wear the swimming suit (trunks or bikini) outside the swimming arena.

12) DON’T wear any dress that will not completely or sufficiently cover your underwear (singlet, pant, underskirt, etc).

13) DON’T clean your nostrils or ear-holes in the public. Do it in a confinement that is out of sight of anyone else.

14) DON’T make your under-pants visible above the band of your pair of trousers or knickers. Sagging fashion is bad dressing.

15) DON’T fail to put on underwear at all times because you can get your dress torn or made to fall off or get pulled off your body at any time.

16) DON’T wear T-shirts that have offensive inscriptions on them.

17) DON’T yawn noisily with your mouth wide open in public because nobody is interested in the numbers, size,colour, or arrangement of your teeth.

18) DON’T use a spoon to drink tea, while entertaining guests. don’t fill a glass to the brim .

19) DON’T as a female, tie wrapper around your chest without a top within or outside your house. This is quite primitive.

20) DON’T wear clothes that are not freshly washed and ironed. People who wear any dress that is torn, stained, or tattered are believed to be careless, carefree, and cannot be trusted.

Sunday 23 March 2014

101 “Everyday” Tips For Losing 10 Pounds (Lesson 10)


91.
Join a dance class. Dancing is a wonderful way to burn off those extra calories. It is true. When you dance you are in fact burning away a lot of calories. Of course we are not referring to the slow ballroom kind of dances in which one person actually leans on the other one for support. We are talking about fast dances.
The best way to do it is by joining a dance class because they will really work you out. But I would suggest that you wait for a couple more pounds to vanish before you think of becoming a ballerina.
92.
Whenever you can, lean against a wall with your hands flattened against the wall and in such a way that your face is very close to the wall. Then use you hands to push your body away from the wall. Do this two or three times at a stretch.
93.
If there is a pool nearby go for swims as often as you can, swimming is one of the best exercises. Water has a lot of advantages. And if nothing else, a cool dip in a pool is a wonderful stress reliever.
94.
Try playing something like table tennis or basket ball. Games are a fun way to lose weight. It is much more exciting to play a game than just work out by yourself. The best thing about games is that they are addictive. Once you start playing you will soon end up with a friends’ circle and then the playing goes on without even you knowing it. It is something that you can look forward to and there is no stress involved in this program. In fact the more you play the less you will consider this to be a part of your weight loss program. As you burn away those calories, you will also be able to expand your social circle.
95.
Any work out should start with a 5 to 10 minute warm up and should end with a 5 to ten minute cool down session. Whatever physical exercise you are involved in, you must remember to warm up before the exercise really starts. Do not just plunge into the water and start thrashing about, to put it figuratively.
Your body needs to reach a certain level of readiness before it can actually start responding to exercise. And this readiness is achieved by the warming up process.
96.
Do not carry your mobile phone around but leave it a place where you can hear it ringing. In this way you make sure that you at least get up and walk towards it. This might sound sill but I really mean it. You need a reason to keep yourself going. Life today has become so easy that we have every thing at our fingertips. All we have to do is push a button here and push a button there. The only things
that get any exercise at all are our fingers. Years ago Charles Darwin put forward a theory of use and disuse. According to this theory, a certain part of the body that is put to constant use
develops a lot and a certain part of the body that has no use at all becomes smaller and smaller and gradually ceases to exist.
Certain examples that he quoted were the long neck of the giraffe, which appeared to become longer and longer when the giraffe stretched higher and higher to reach the leaves at the treetops. He quoted the example of the absence of a tail in human beings to illustrate the example of the theory of disuse. Now if Darwin’s theory were to prove true, as the years go by man is likely to
end up with just a huge head, a few fingers and maybe some other parts of the body that are also put to use. That is why I made it a point to say that you have to drive your self to move about. A cell phone may be convenient, but the same thing can turn out to
simplify life just a little too bit. There are other arguments against the use of cell phones but that is beside our topic.
What I would suggest is that at home or in your office, leave the cell phone lying about so that you can hear it ring, but can’t just reach into your pocket and answer it. See to it that you have to actually stand up and walk a few steps before you can pick it up.
97.
While traveling in an elevator instead of just standing there and staring stupidly at the numbers going up or down, try raising your self onto your toes and then back on your feet again. Do this several times. Also try flexing your buttock muscles as well.
In fact there are many muscles in our body that we can twitch and flex without inviting the attention of others. Even if others do notice you, its no big deal provided you are flexing a muscle in a decent part of the body. (Most of the other parts do not have muscles any way.) Others might brand you as a health freak but it is miles better to be known as a heath freak than as a sack of potatoes.
98.
Undress and stare at yourself in front of your mirror. If what you see displeases you, then you have all the more reason to work out. Try tucking in the extra fat in all those wide areas, this will give you an idea of which part you need to be working on.
Turn to you side and get a very good view of your side profile. This is an excellent way of checking whether you have a tummy that is starting to bulge or has bulged already.
Try pulling in air and then take a look at your tummy, if it has gone in even a little bit, there is hope for you. If you start now, you can control it where it is now and may be if you really set your mind to it, you can lose a couple of inches in a just a few weeks.
Weighing your self on your bathroom scales is a good idea but personally I would recommend this mirror viewing. To be very frank, a few pounds gain may shock you but does not really disgust you. But a flabby figure and extra fat certainly will.
99.
If you have a banister rail or a balustrade that will support you, sit on it and pump your legs as if you are riding a bicycle, taking care not to fall off of course.
This might sound like another crazy idea and I don’t want to argue with you about that. I just want to tell you that by doing such crazy things, you are in fact not missing a single chance to lose those extra pounds. It is a way of keeping your mind alert all the time. Every thing must look like an opportunity to you.
100.
Do not slouch in your chair but try to maintain an erect posture with your tummy tucked in. Slouching is a very bad habit. Not only is it bad for your back but it also gives you a very flabby figure. It is your way of saying yes to a comfortable, weight-gaining pose.
Make it a point to always sit as erect as you can. It is also a terrific way to ward off back problems.
101.
Psst. I would like to let you in on a secret. As it is I understand that most of us tend to put on weight particularly in the mid section, right. It is the tummy that seems to have a mind of its own. Well I will tell you a sure shot method to reduce the flab around the waist line. Mind you this doesn’t hold true for post pregnancy tummies. This is what you have to do. Breathe in air as strongly as you can and as you do so, tuck in your tummy as much as you can. Hold it like this for a few seconds and then slowly release your breath taking care not to let out your tummy. Try to keep breathing like this at least fifty or sixty times in a day.
In fact breathe like this whenever you can remember to do so. After the first day, you should feel the muscles of your stomach tightening each time you do this. Then you know that you are on the right track. If you practice this without fail for 20 days, at the end of the twentieth day, you will have lost at least an inch.
Below I have included a table of the various exercises and the number of calories that can be burnt with each exercise. Choose what you can do best and choose something that you will enjoy doing on the long run as well.
The choice of the exercise is completely left to you but try to do whatever you wish to do for at least twenty minutes. It is only after you do the exercise for twenty minutes that the actual calorie burning sets in.
Aerobics 200-250 calories
Bicycling, Stationary 250-300 calories
Bicycling, Actual 300-400 calories
Running, 5-6 mph 300-350 calories
Stair climber 200-250 calories
Swimming laps 350 calories
Walking briskly 150-180 calories
From this you can see for your self that walking is not at all something that has to be sidelined. If you really find your days to be too full to fit in any other form of exercise, then walking is your best bet. Walk as much as you can.
Try getting to places and leaving places a little early. This will give you time to walk.
Well, I guess that’s about it. The ball is now in your court so what are you waiting for? Get rid of those extra calories and pounds as early as you can and try to enjoy life the best you can without inviting all those terrible diseases that come with a few extra pounds.



How Much Do You Know?
I have included a simple test to see how much you have grasped about the
proper way to control your diet. Go ahead and do the test, you might find it
interesting.

1) Which of the following is suitable for a between meal snack?
a) Cheese
b) Carrots
c) Yogurt
d) Coffee
e) Candy

2) How many glasses of water should a person have in a day?
a) 5-6
b) 10-20
c) 10- 12
d) 4-5
e) 15-20

3) Which of the following is bad as far as weight control is concerned?
a) snacking
b) smoking
c) coffee
d) crash diets
e) all the above

4) How many hours sleep does an adult need?
a) 7-8
b) 6-7
c) 8-9
d) 5-6
e) 9-10

5) Which is better for a person on a diet?
a) fresh fruit
b) canned fruit
c) fruit juice
d) processed fruit
e) cooked fruit

6) Which of the following should you always include in your diet?
a) nuts
b) dried fruits
c) fruit juice
d) salads
e) tea
7) Which of these two is better for your health?
a) coffee
b) tea

8) The most important meal of the day is
a) supper
b) snacks
c) break fast
d) lunch
e) tea

9) Which of the following can you afford to cut out from your diet?
a) fats
b) carbohydrates
c) vegetables
d) proteins
e) vitamins

10) Which meat is better for health?
a) white meat
b) red meat
c) raw meat

Answers:
1. b
2. c
3. e
4. a
5. a
6. d
7. b
8. c
9. a
10. a

Muscle Power
Use your brain to answer the test on the
best ways to work out.

1) Which is the best exercise among the following?
a) horse riding
b) walking
c) swimming
d) running
e) bowling
2) Before you need to work out, you need to
a) drink water
b) warm up
c) consult a trainer
d) make up your mind
e) cool off
3) You can afford to take a day off from your work out every week
a) true
b) false
4) Yoga does not help to reduce weight
a) true
b) false

5) Breathing exercises strengthen the shoulder muscles
a) true
b) false

Answers:
1. c
2. b
3. a
4. a
5. b