51. No sex
talks.
No sex talks
should be a rule that you need to follow, especially in first dates. This is
because first
and second dates are usually the time when you get to know the other
person, who
can be your potential boyfriend or girlfriend. Talking about sex might give
the wrong
impression about your intentions, which can make the other person feel
uncomfortable.
52. Be nice.
Being nice can
mean a lot of things, especially for a guy. Nice can mean desirable,
normal,
presentable, trustable, helpful, or friendly; and, lots of women are actually
on
the lookout
for the nice guys. Thus, taking note of these things can help you make a
good
impression on your dates.
53. What to do
with your apartment.
Whether you
are a boy or a girl, you need to come up with an apartment that makes you look
more mature, especially if you are approaching a stage, where you are planning
to invite your date inside. The apartment should be tidy and clean, and it
should be free from posters. Instead, decorate your apartment in a more mature
way, and get it organized well, so that you can impress your date.
54. Calling
him or her.
If he or she
gives you their contact number after a date, you should not call them a day
after. Calling
just a day after your date is too soon, which can scare your date away. It
gives an impression that you are too eager in listening to
his or her voice. Thus, it is
best if you
give him or her a call only after 2 to 4 days after you meet them for the first
time.
55. Make
memories.
If you are
dating the girl of your dreams, make sure to do something that would make
memories. You
might be glad that you were able to strike a stimulating conversation
with her at
the bar, but it may not be enough for your date to be memorable. To achieve
that, you should do something different, such as bringing her to the zoo, to a
circus, or even just a nice walk in the park.
56. Dating is
discovering.
Dating is
actually a stage in a relationship where you would begin to discover certain
things about
an individual. Thus, it is best that you have a good conversation with your
date, so that
you would be able to know him or her better. Knowing your date better
would offer
you a chance to see if you really are compatible or not.
57. Sharing
common values.
Dating can
provide you a chance to know whether you and your date share common
values.
Although sexual chemistry and sharing common interests are two important
things to get
started on a relationship, sharing common values is much more important, since
it can cultivate a more lasting relationship. Thus, it is best that you take
advantage of dating to find out more about it.
58. Dating is
not something like a vocation.
Dating is not
a vocation. Therefore, one of your main objectives in dating should be to
have fun in
meeting new people. It is not something that you need to do in order to have a
life. Although there are lots of things that you need to take note of when it
comes to dating, it shouldn’t be treated as something that you really need to
perform well on. Thus, have some fun, so that you can be yourself in dating.
59. Never date
when you are not over your ex.
If you are not
over your ex yet, then you should not go on dates. This is because your
emotions can
end up destroying all your dates. You might engage into self-pity while
you are
talking with your dates, aside from talking all about your ex and his or her
shortcomings.
Thus, make sure that you are completely over your ex prior to dating, so
that your
potential partners won’t avoid you.
60. Online
dating is just one of your options in meeting people.
Many people
today engage into online dating, especially those who are quite busy with
their own
careers. However, online dating should just be viewed as a way to increasing
your chances
of meeting more people whom you may be able to date. Thus, it is just
one of the
many options that you have when it comes to that. You should still go out,
and meet new
people personally, so that you can have a more interesting life.
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