11. Get to
know yourself better.
To enjoy
dating more, you need to know yourself better. This means you should
determine what
you like, what your interests are, what your goals are, and such. By
taking note of
these things, you will be guided better in choosing your dates. However, it is
always a better idea to get out of your comfort zone from time to time to try
new
things.
12. Avoid
negative individuals.
When you are
around negative individuals, it would affect your mindset and it can also
affect your
judgment in a negative way. This is because when you are near them, you
might become one
of them. Therefore, to enjoy your dates, you should always surround yourself
with positive individuals, so that prior to meeting up with him or her, you
have a positive mindset.
13. Engaging
into phone or online sex.
Engaging into
online or phone sex is not a good idea. This is because you cannot
expect
anything from it, but just a waste of your time. This is because people who do
these sorts of
things often are involve with it just to while away their extra time. Thus, if
you participate in it, then you cannot expect them to respect you.
14.
Acknowledge the presence of dubious behavior.
If you have
been with lots of failed relationships, then you must realize that many of
these
breakups, could have been prevented, if you acknowledge the presence of
dubious
behavior in the early stages of the relationship, or during your dating times.
Therefore, if
you see these things on your date, then you should confront him or her
about it, or
simply look for another one.
15. Have a
life.
If you have
found a date whom you really like, it is very important that you are still
aware of your priorities. Thus, you should not become dependent on him or her,
so that he would see you as someone who is independent and confident. If you
won’t focus on having your own life, then you might end up neglecting yourself,
your friends, family, or even your work. 7
16. Criticizing the date.
You won’t be
able to gain lots of things if you criticize your date by talking about him or
her with your friends. Always keep in mind that you also do not want to be
criticized on your actions. Thus, if you simply don’t like your date, then you
should be mature enough not to set up another encounter with the person.
17. Control
your drinks.
Drinking a
bottle or two of your favorite beer while you are dating is not a sin. However,
you should limit the number of bottles you consume, since you might end up
losing control of yourself when you have too much to drink. Thus, if you tend
to over drink, then you should avoid it by all means, since you might lose your
chances of starting a relationship with your date.
18. Out of
your league.
There is
always a tendency to bring down yourself, when you think that your date is
simply out of
your league. This way of thinking about your self worth should not be
encouraged,
since if you tend to believe that you are not good enough for a certain
individual,
then you may end up with someone who is also not good enough, or simply
another person
who thinks the same way as you do. Thus, it is time to become more
confident, so
that you can find the person that you really are looking for.
19. Determine
what you really want out of dating.
In determining
what you really want in dating, you should be able to prevent wasting
yours and
someone else’s time. Thus, you need to determine whether you are dating to
start a brand new relationship, to simply have fun, or to pass your time. By
doing that, you can also base your search for your date on it, to find the
right person.
20. Fix
yourself up for the date.
When you make
an effort on your appearance on your date, you can increase the
chances of
having a good time in it. This is because it can make you feel good about
yourself, and
increase your self confidence. Aside from that, you can also ensure to
have the right
mindset, which can prepare you to have a positive conversation with him or her.
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