101 DATING TIPS PART 4

31. You are serious about your future.

When you show your date that you are serious about your future, then it provides them with reassurance that you can also be serious about them. Although your date may not be looking for a long term relationship, it is still best if you treat him or her as someone who could be your potential partner, especially if you really like them.

32. Be someone your date can introduce to her parents.

If you are serious about your date, then you should give him or her an impression that

you are worthy to be introduced to your date’s parents. This means that you need to

become presentable, by dressing and behaving appropriately. This does not mean that

you need to become too serious though. Telling a joke or two would definitely make you more comfortable with each other.

33. Never interrupt.

Interrupting someone while he or she is talking is not a good idea, especially on a date.

Unless if you want to annoy your date, you should never interrupt while he or she is

talking, since it can be viewed as a sign of disrespect. Always let your date finish what

he or she is saying, so that you would also be able to understand what they are trying to say.

34. Don’t be a whiner.

When you are on a date, one of the worst things that you can do is to become a whiner. A whiner often complains about everything, and always tell his or herself that he or she is a loser. Being a whiner on a date is not just annoying, but it can make the other person wish that he or she did not go out with you after all.

35. Don’t be a crybaby.

A crybaby is someone who always talks about his or her past mistakes, problems, or

past relationship failures. More often than not, crybabies are looking for shoulders to

lean on. However, becoming a shoulder to lean on is not the main purpose of going on

a date. Thus, you can’t expect your date to offer you his or her shoulder once you vent

out of your feelings regarding your experiences in the past.

36. Let your date talk.

If you want your date to have a good time, then let them talk. People always appreciate it when someone asks for their opinion about something, in which they would enjoy talking about the reasons they say certain things are good or bad. To achieve this, all you actually have to do is to ask open-ended questions.

37. Be a friend to your date.

Becoming a friend to your date is not a bad idea, especially if you have already dated a

couple of times. When you become an understanding friend to your date, then he or she will be grateful about it. To be a friend to your date, you simply need to listen to them whenever they need to vent out their emotions about certain things.

38. Trust.

Lots of people do not open up too much or invest too much emotions on their dates or

potential partners. This is because, they are afraid of getting hurt, or they were hurt

before. Thus, it is best that you become a person whom your date can trust. By doing

that, you would become closer to your date, once he or she gains more trust in you.

39. Touching your date.

For a man, if his date touches him, he can interpret it as something positive. However,

for women, touching them on the first date may not be a good idea, because some may become offended by it. Only touch a woman when she becomes more comfortable with you, in which you already engage into dancing, or if she touches you when you tell jokes.

40. Mysterious.

Some people love dating a mysterious person since they love to slowly uncover things

about him or her, as they go on more dates; and, this is especially true to most women. Being mysterious means that you give your date an idea about what you are, but you are not going into more details about it. It leaves them a feeling of hanging, in which they would want to know you more.