91. Don’t be
too available.
If a person
you are dating has let a week gone by before calling you up to set up
another date,
then you should not accept the invitation. This is because it could show
them that you
are too available, or are desperate in going out. If a person thinks about
you that way, then he may begin to think about you in a
negative way and come up with bad ideas.
92. Don’t be
confrontational.
You might
think that being confrontational or aggressive can make the other person
think that you
are self reliant and self-assured. Although this is true, it is actually not a
good idea to
make this kind of impression on your first few dates. This is because, the
other person
may come to think that you would be using your aggressive behavior to
manipulate him
or her.
93. What to do
when your date is reluctant in answering your questions.
Asking the
right questions is very important in order to gain the right information from
your date.
However, if your date is having second thoughts in answering them, then
either he or
she is hiding something from you, or is trying to come up with a lie. You
can’t date
someone who is not an open book, since you might end up expecting
something that
he or she cannot provide.
94. You can
always say no.
It is quite
understandable that you want to be agreeable in order to prevent
confrontations.
However, you can always say no if you really disagree on something. By doing
that, you are actually being honest to your date. Aside from that, it would let
your date get to know you better, and would also encourage them to be
themselves as well.
95. If you
want honesty, be honest.
Since you want
your date to be honest, you should also be honest yourself. Being
honest means
that you are being yourself. By doing that, you are actually revealing
yourself to
your date, and it is up to him or her to like you for it or not. When you are
honest, it may
also encourage the other person to be honest as well. Besides, being
honest can
also help you see if the other person is lying or is telling you the truth.
96. It is fine
to be unsure on the first date.
If you are not
so sure about the outcome of your first date and you are still willing to give
it a try, then you should contact the other person 2 to 4 days later. Some
people can take some time to become more comfortable with someone new. Thus,
after a few
dates, you
should be able to conclude whether you can start a relationship with your
date or not.
98. Don’t date
just because your friends and family tell you so.
When you date
just because your friends and family tell you so, then you are not being
true to
yourself. This can lead you to dates that are not worth remembering, especially
if you live it to them in setting you up with someone they know. Thus, it is
best that you would go out on a date, because you really want to.
99. Choosing a
site for online dating.
Online dating
provides you a way to meet people that share your interests. In choosing
the site
though, it is best that you do your research about it. By doing that, you would
be ensuring that your information is safe. Aside from that, researching can
also help you choose a site that would raise your potentials in finding the
person you are meant to be with.
100. You don’t have to say that you love a person.
Only say the
three magic words, when you really mean it. Thus, you don’t have to say it
when you truly
appreciate the other person for his or her actions. Aside from that, even
though you really think that you are falling for him or her, you should not say
these words until you have begun building the first few blocks of your relationship.
101. What it
means if your date tells you he or she loves you.
If a person
tells you that he or she loves you, even when you are still at the first or
second date,
then it can mean a lot of things. For instance, they may simply want to get you
to bed, or are simply not evaluating their feelings well. Nevertheless, this
means that he or she is speeding things up, instead of letting your
relationship grow on a more natural pace.
