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21. Smile on your date.

When you smile, everyone else around you would feel like smiling as well, including

your date. Thus, it would encourage a more positive environment between you and your potential partner. Smiling can lead to a more enjoyable conversation, which can make you and your date have more fun while you are both enjoying your meal.

22. Your posture.

Becoming more conscious on your posture can provide you with lots of benefits in terms of your health, as well as your date. This is because it can show your date that you are a strong and an independent individual. Aside from that, it would make you feel more confident, aside from making you feel that you are taller.

23. Shaving.

Shaving is something that both men and women should do, prior to going on a date. For men, having a well shaved face would impress most women, since women see it as a sign of a man’s cleanliness. For women, it is best that they shave their underarms,

since a man could get easily turned off if he sees that his date has hair in that part of her

24. Being conscious of your voice.

To sound more mature, it is best that you gain better control of your voice. Maintaining a calmed and low toned voice is the best way to do it. This is because if you talk in a high tone or with cracking sounds, then your date would have a tendency to see you as someone who is immature. Thus, it is best if you train yourself for this.

25. Your smell.

Smelling good is very important on a date. Thus, using a good perfume or even just a

good smelling cologne would already impress your date. Aside from that, you should

always make sure that you wear a reliable deodorant, since if you sweat and its odor

mixes with your perfume, then you might need to kiss your chances of having a second

date goodbye.

26. Taboo subjects.

Picking the right kinds of topics for your conversation is one of the most important things that you need to take note of, while you are on a date. To make it easier though, you should avoid talking about subjects that are taboo, since it would not encourage a more relaxing environment. Focus on more lighter topics, so that you and your date would enjoy the conversation more.

27. Avoid a bad mood.

Anything that can cause someone to have a bad mood should be avoided in any case,

when you are on a date. This is because having a bad mood can make a dream date

into a nightmare. Thus, it is best that you always focus on the positive side of things.

Aside from that, you should also avoid sarcasm. Moreover, it is never a good idea to be

late on your first date.

28. Use the name of your date.

Using the name of your date all throughout the night on your conversation would help

you a lot. By doing that, you would actually be helping yourself in remembering his or

her name, since you are constantly saying it. Aside from that, it can also create a more

intimate atmosphere between you and your date.

29. Use different perfumes or colognes.

If you have been going out with a woman or a man for several occasions, then you

should change your perfume or cologne, each time you go out with your date. This is

because variety is the spice of life. Aside from that, you can actually impress your date

by asking them about what type of cologne he or she likes best, and wear it on the next date.

30. Stay fit.

Staying as fit as you can be would make you more attractive, aside from the fact that it

would also boost your self esteem. Because of that, you would be able portray a more

confident self when you meet with your date for the first time. Therefore, it is time that you get some exercise on a regular basis, and combine it with a healthy diet.

101 DATING TIPS PART 2

11. Get to know yourself better.

To enjoy dating more, you need to know yourself better. This means you should

determine what you like, what your interests are, what your goals are, and such. By

taking note of these things, you will be guided better in choosing your dates. However, it is always a better idea to get out of your comfort zone from time to time to try new

things.

12. Avoid negative individuals.

When you are around negative individuals, it would affect your mindset and it can also

affect your judgment in a negative way. This is because when you are near them, you

might become one of them. Therefore, to enjoy your dates, you should always surround yourself with positive individuals, so that prior to meeting up with him or her, you have a positive mindset.

13. Engaging into phone or online sex.

Engaging into online or phone sex is not a good idea. This is because you cannot

expect anything from it, but just a waste of your time. This is because people who do

these sorts of things often are involve with it just to while away their extra time. Thus, if you participate in it, then you cannot expect them to respect you.

14. Acknowledge the presence of dubious behavior.

If you have been with lots of failed relationships, then you must realize that many of

these breakups, could have been prevented, if you acknowledge the presence of

dubious behavior in the early stages of the relationship, or during your dating times.

Therefore, if you see these things on your date, then you should confront him or her

about it, or simply look for another one.

15. Have a life.

If you have found a date whom you really like, it is very important that you are still aware of your priorities. Thus, you should not become dependent on him or her, so that he would see you as someone who is independent and confident. If you won’t focus on having your own life, then you might end up neglecting yourself, your friends, family, or even your work. 7

16. Criticizing the date.

You won’t be able to gain lots of things if you criticize your date by talking about him or her with your friends. Always keep in mind that you also do not want to be criticized on your actions. Thus, if you simply don’t like your date, then you should be mature enough not to set up another encounter with the person.

17. Control your drinks.

Drinking a bottle or two of your favorite beer while you are dating is not a sin. However, you should limit the number of bottles you consume, since you might end up losing control of yourself when you have too much to drink. Thus, if you tend to over drink, then you should avoid it by all means, since you might lose your chances of starting a relationship with your date.

18. Out of your league.

There is always a tendency to bring down yourself, when you think that your date is

simply out of your league. This way of thinking about your self worth should not be

encouraged, since if you tend to believe that you are not good enough for a certain

individual, then you may end up with someone who is also not good enough, or simply

another person who thinks the same way as you do. Thus, it is time to become more

confident, so that you can find the person that you really are looking for.

19. Determine what you really want out of dating.

In determining what you really want in dating, you should be able to prevent wasting

yours and someone else’s time. Thus, you need to determine whether you are dating to start a brand new relationship, to simply have fun, or to pass your time. By doing that, you can also base your search for your date on it, to find the right person.

20. Fix yourself up for the date.

When you make an effort on your appearance on your date, you can increase the

chances of having a good time in it. This is because it can make you feel good about

yourself, and increase your self confidence. Aside from that, you can also ensure to

have the right mindset, which can prepare you to have a positive conversation with him or her.