1. Don’t take dating too
seriously.
This basically means that you
should enjoy your dates more. Aside from that, you
should also view dating as
something that can offer you an opportunity to meet new
people and socialize. Moreover,
it can also offer you a potential to finding someone
whom you can build a
relationship with.
2. Don’t date out of
desperation.
Never date just because you are
desperate of having a relationship. This is because it
can lead to having someone whom
you may want to change for the better, in the future. Aside from that, since
desperation can cloud your judgment, you may end up with someone who will just
make you more insecure.
3. Don’t date other people to
make someone jealous.
When you are dating another
person just to make someone jealous about it, then you
are not doing anyone a favour.
This is because; you might end up showing the other
person that you really like him
or her. Aside from that, chances are, you might also
suggest that you really are
enjoying yourself with another company when you are not.
4. Practice caution on multiple
dating.
When you are dating a number of
men or women, you might end up stressing yourself
out. This is because multiple
dating is never easy, and it needs you to become very
organized. Although you may be
enjoying the variety of persons multiple dating can
offer to you, it is still less
stressful when you are not always worrying about sending the wrong text
messages or emails to the wrong person.
5. Be yourself.
Being yourself in dating can go
a long way, especially if you are on a quest to finding a
person to have a healthy
relationship with. This is because when you won’t be hiding
anything from your date, you
can be assured that he would be accepting you just the
way you are, if your
relationship grows.
6. Don’t date to play games.
Dating can involve emotions of
people who are included in it. Therefore, if you are
looking at date, as something
that you enjoy just like your games, then you should
rethink it. This is because
playing games with people’s emotions is not a good idea.
Thus, it is best to see it as
something that is serious, since, just like you, other people
also do not want to get hurt.
7. Lending money to your date.
If you want to lend money to your
date, you have to make sure that you are already in a relationship. Aside from
that, you should also trust him or her. This is because if you
lend someone money, whom you
are not in a deep relationship with, then there is a
huge possibility that he or she
won’t be able to pay you with the money you lent.
8. Enjoy dating not just for
sex.
When you are enjoying your
sexual interactions, it can affect your decision making,
which can cause negative
results. Therefore, it is always suggested not to sleep with
someone on the first few dates.
By doing that, you can focus more on getting to know
the other person, which may include discovering common
values.
9. Get out of
the house.
Although
online dating is quite popular these days, it is always better to go out in
order
to find dates.
This is because dating offline is more fun, due to the fact that you get to
meet your date
personally. Aside from that, when you go outside, it increases your
dating
potentials further, which can help you end up with someone whom you really
enjoy being
with.
10. Take a
break.
Taking a break
from dating can be a good idea, especially if it is making you more
miserable. A
break from dating can be made for a period of 3 to 6 months. In taking a
break, it can
provide you with time to rediscover yourself. This basically means that it
can offer you
more time in getting involved with a hobby, or catching up with your
friends.
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