Sunday, 28 September 2014

101 DATING TIPS PART 3



21. Smile on your date.
When you smile, everyone else around you would feel like smiling as well, including
your date. Thus, it would encourage a more positive environment between you and your potential partner. Smiling can lead to a more enjoyable conversation, which can make you and your date have more fun while you are both enjoying your meal.

22. Your posture.
Becoming more conscious on your posture can provide you with lots of benefits in terms of your health, as well as your date. This is because it can show your date that you are a strong and an independent individual. Aside from that, it would make you feel more confident, aside from making you feel that you are taller.
23. Shaving.
Shaving is something that both men and women should do, prior to going on a date. For men, having a well shaved face would impress most women, since women see it as a sign of a man’s cleanliness. For women, it is best that they shave their underarms,

since a man could get easily turned off if he sees that his date has hair in that part of her
24. Being conscious of your voice.
To sound more mature, it is best that you gain better control of your voice. Maintaining a calmed and low toned voice is the best way to do it. This is because if you talk in a high tone or with cracking sounds, then your date would have a tendency to see you as someone who is immature. Thus, it is best if you train yourself for this.
25. Your smell.
Smelling good is very important on a date. Thus, using a good perfume or even just a
good smelling cologne would already impress your date. Aside from that, you should
always make sure that you wear a reliable deodorant, since if you sweat and its odor
mixes with your perfume, then you might need to kiss your chances of having a second
date goodbye.
26. Taboo subjects.
Picking the right kinds of topics for your conversation is one of the most important things that you need to take note of, while you are on a date. To make it easier though, you should avoid talking about subjects that are taboo, since it would not encourage a more relaxing environment. Focus on more lighter topics, so that you and your date would enjoy the conversation more.
27. Avoid a bad mood.
Anything that can cause someone to have a bad mood should be avoided in any case,
when you are on a date. This is because having a bad mood can make a dream date
into a nightmare. Thus, it is best that you always focus on the positive side of things.
Aside from that, you should also avoid sarcasm. Moreover, it is never a good idea to be
late on your first date.
28. Use the name of your date.
Using the name of your date all throughout the night on your conversation would help
you a lot. By doing that, you would actually be helping yourself in remembering his or
her name, since you are constantly saying it. Aside from that, it can also create a more
intimate atmosphere between you and your date.
29. Use different perfumes or colognes.
If you have been going out with a woman or a man for several occasions, then you
should change your perfume or cologne, each time you go out with your date. This is
because variety is the spice of life. Aside from that, you can actually impress your date
by asking them about what type of cologne he or she likes best, and wear it on the next date.
30. Stay fit.
Staying as fit as you can be would make you more attractive, aside from the fact that it
would also boost your self esteem. Because of that, you would be able portray a more
confident self when you meet with your date for the first time. Therefore, it is time that you get some exercise on a regular basis, and combine it with a healthy diet.

Sunday, 14 September 2014

101 DATING TIPS PART 2



11. Get to know yourself better.
To enjoy dating more, you need to know yourself better. This means you should
determine what you like, what your interests are, what your goals are, and such. By
taking note of these things, you will be guided better in choosing your dates. However, it is always a better idea to get out of your comfort zone from time to time to try new
things.
12. Avoid negative individuals.
When you are around negative individuals, it would affect your mindset and it can also
affect your judgment in a negative way. This is because when you are near them, you
might become one of them. Therefore, to enjoy your dates, you should always surround yourself with positive individuals, so that prior to meeting up with him or her, you have a positive mindset.
13. Engaging into phone or online sex.
Engaging into online or phone sex is not a good idea. This is because you cannot
expect anything from it, but just a waste of your time. This is because people who do
these sorts of things often are involve with it just to while away their extra time. Thus, if you participate in it, then you cannot expect them to respect you.
14. Acknowledge the presence of dubious behavior.
If you have been with lots of failed relationships, then you must realize that many of
these breakups, could have been prevented, if you acknowledge the presence of
dubious behavior in the early stages of the relationship, or during your dating times.
Therefore, if you see these things on your date, then you should confront him or her
about it, or simply look for another one.
15. Have a life.
If you have found a date whom you really like, it is very important that you are still aware of your priorities. Thus, you should not become dependent on him or her, so that he would see you as someone who is independent and confident. If you won’t focus on having your own life, then you might end up neglecting yourself, your friends, family, or even your work. 7

16. Criticizing the date.
You won’t be able to gain lots of things if you criticize your date by talking about him or her with your friends. Always keep in mind that you also do not want to be criticized on your actions. Thus, if you simply don’t like your date, then you should be mature enough not to set up another encounter with the person.
17. Control your drinks.
Drinking a bottle or two of your favorite beer while you are dating is not a sin. However, you should limit the number of bottles you consume, since you might end up losing control of yourself when you have too much to drink. Thus, if you tend to over drink, then you should avoid it by all means, since you might lose your chances of starting a relationship with your date.
18. Out of your league.
There is always a tendency to bring down yourself, when you think that your date is
simply out of your league. This way of thinking about your self worth should not be
encouraged, since if you tend to believe that you are not good enough for a certain
individual, then you may end up with someone who is also not good enough, or simply
another person who thinks the same way as you do. Thus, it is time to become more
confident, so that you can find the person that you really are looking for.
19. Determine what you really want out of dating.
In determining what you really want in dating, you should be able to prevent wasting
yours and someone else’s time. Thus, you need to determine whether you are dating to start a brand new relationship, to simply have fun, or to pass your time. By doing that, you can also base your search for your date on it, to find the right person.
20. Fix yourself up for the date.
When you make an effort on your appearance on your date, you can increase the
chances of having a good time in it. This is because it can make you feel good about
yourself, and increase your self confidence. Aside from that, you can also ensure to
have the right mindset, which can prepare you to have a positive conversation with him or her.

Sunday, 31 August 2014

101 DATING TIPS



1. Don’t take dating too seriously.
This basically means that you should enjoy your dates more. Aside from that, you
should also view dating as something that can offer you an opportunity to meet new
people and socialize. Moreover, it can also offer you a potential to finding someone
whom you can build a relationship with.
2. Don’t date out of desperation.
Never date just because you are desperate of having a relationship. This is because it
can lead to having someone whom you may want to change for the better, in the future. Aside from that, since desperation can cloud your judgment, you may end up with someone who will just make you more insecure.
3. Don’t date other people to make someone jealous.
When you are dating another person just to make someone jealous about it, then you
are not doing anyone a favour. This is because; you might end up showing the other
person that you really like him or her. Aside from that, chances are, you might also
suggest that you really are enjoying yourself with another company when you are not.
4. Practice caution on multiple dating.
When you are dating a number of men or women, you might end up stressing yourself
out. This is because multiple dating is never easy, and it needs you to become very
organized. Although you may be enjoying the variety of persons multiple dating can
offer to you, it is still less stressful when you are not always worrying about sending the wrong text messages or emails to the wrong person.
5. Be yourself.
Being yourself in dating can go a long way, especially if you are on a quest to finding a
person to have a healthy relationship with. This is because when you won’t be hiding
anything from your date, you can be assured that he would be accepting you just the
way you are, if your relationship grows.
6. Don’t date to play games.
Dating can involve emotions of people who are included in it. Therefore, if you are
looking at date, as something that you enjoy just like your games, then you should
rethink it. This is because playing games with people’s emotions is not a good idea.
Thus, it is best to see it as something that is serious, since, just like you, other people
also do not want to get hurt.
7. Lending money to your date.
If you want to lend money to your date, you have to make sure that you are already in a relationship. Aside from that, you should also trust him or her. This is because if you
lend someone money, whom you are not in a deep relationship with, then there is a
huge possibility that he or she won’t be able to pay you with the money you lent.
8. Enjoy dating not just for sex.
When you are enjoying your sexual interactions, it can affect your decision making,
which can cause negative results. Therefore, it is always suggested not to sleep with
someone on the first few dates. By doing that, you can focus more on getting to know

the other person, which may include discovering common values.
9. Get out of the house.
Although online dating is quite popular these days, it is always better to go out in order
to find dates. This is because dating offline is more fun, due to the fact that you get to
meet your date personally. Aside from that, when you go outside, it increases your
dating potentials further, which can help you end up with someone whom you really
enjoy being with.

10. Take a break.
Taking a break from dating can be a good idea, especially if it is making you more
miserable. A break from dating can be made for a period of 3 to 6 months. In taking a
break, it can provide you with time to rediscover yourself. This basically means that it
can offer you more time in getting involved with a hobby, or catching up with your
friends.

Friday, 29 August 2014

WHAT EVERY WOMAN WANTS



WHAT EVERY
WOMAN WANTS
IS:

  • Rekindling.......................................AROUSE
  • Love............................TO FEEL A PASSION
  • Intimacy.........PRIVATE & VERY PERSONAL
LOVE, a state of mind, only the wise or
lucky ever find. And having found it, only
the brave can make it flourish until the grave.
Women like romance. And let's not forget that men
enjoy it, too. Though no one has a foolproof formula
for romance, words can make the difference. Romantic
Loving Words can be fun, playful, serious, or silly.
They can be healing, encouraging, satisfying, and
wonderful. Sometimes they come at us all at once, but
often just a little at a time.
No matter how romantic words are used, you are a
lucky person if you are in a relationship where Loving
Words are shared like this love note.

Tuesday, 3 June 2014

RULES OF ETIQUETTE (DECENT BEHAVIOUR)



What is Etiquette?

Etiquette simply means a set of rules of good manners and decent behaviours, which enable individual, imbibe certain attributes that will make everyone around him or her feel comfortable, happy and welcome. In turn, a decently behaved individual earns for himself or herself admiration and respect from the society.

Study and carefully observe the following DOs and DON’Ts. They will guide you to be of good behaviour.

1) DO; remember that the first rule of etiquette is ‘respect yourself’

2) DO; remember that the second rule of etiquette and life ‘respect other people’ especially the elderly ones’.

3) DON’T give somebody and ugly look when he or she comes visiting as if you hate the person, even if you don’t like his or her face.

4) DON’T sneeze noisily when you are in the midst of people or cough in such a way that will cause embarrassment or attract undue attention to yourself.

5) DO; cover your mouth and nostrils with handkerchief whenever you sneeze or cough in the midst of people.

6) DON’T stretch your hand to a woman (if you are male) for a handshake unless she is a younger relation of yours or junior in school.

7) DO; receive the handshake of your boss or senior colleague or an elderly person or someone of higher status in the society or in school than yourself with a bow.

8) DON’T read another person’s letter, however intimate your relation is, unless you are permitted by the owner to do so.

9) DON’T open another person’s diary to read the contents for whatever reason.

10) DON’T wear the football jersey outside the playing arena.

11) DON’T wear the swimming suit (trunks or bikini) outside the swimming arena.

12) DON’T wear any dress that will not completely or sufficiently cover your underwear (singlet, pant, underskirt, etc).

13) DON’T clean your nostrils or ear-holes in the public. Do it in a confinement that is out of sight of anyone else.

14) DON’T make your under-pants visible above the band of your pair of trousers or knickers. Sagging fashion is bad dressing.

15) DON’T fail to put on underwear at all times because you can get your dress torn or made to fall off or get pulled off your body at any time.

16) DON’T wear T-shirts that have offensive inscriptions on them.

17) DON’T yawn noisily with your mouth wide open in public because nobody is interested in the numbers, size,colour, or arrangement of your teeth.

18) DON’T use a spoon to drink tea, while entertaining guests. don’t fill a glass to the brim .

19) DON’T as a female, tie wrapper around your chest without a top within or outside your house. This is quite primitive.

20) DON’T wear clothes that are not freshly washed and ironed. People who wear any dress that is torn, stained, or tattered are believed to be careless, carefree, and cannot be trusted.

Sunday, 23 March 2014

101 “Everyday” Tips For Losing 10 Pounds (Lesson 10)


91.
Join a dance class. Dancing is a wonderful way to burn off those extra calories. It is true. When you dance you are in fact burning away a lot of calories. Of course we are not referring to the slow ballroom kind of dances in which one person actually leans on the other one for support. We are talking about fast dances.
The best way to do it is by joining a dance class because they will really work you out. But I would suggest that you wait for a couple more pounds to vanish before you think of becoming a ballerina.
92.
Whenever you can, lean against a wall with your hands flattened against the wall and in such a way that your face is very close to the wall. Then use you hands to push your body away from the wall. Do this two or three times at a stretch.
93.
If there is a pool nearby go for swims as often as you can, swimming is one of the best exercises. Water has a lot of advantages. And if nothing else, a cool dip in a pool is a wonderful stress reliever.
94.
Try playing something like table tennis or basket ball. Games are a fun way to lose weight. It is much more exciting to play a game than just work out by yourself. The best thing about games is that they are addictive. Once you start playing you will soon end up with a friends’ circle and then the playing goes on without even you knowing it. It is something that you can look forward to and there is no stress involved in this program. In fact the more you play the less you will consider this to be a part of your weight loss program. As you burn away those calories, you will also be able to expand your social circle.
95.
Any work out should start with a 5 to 10 minute warm up and should end with a 5 to ten minute cool down session. Whatever physical exercise you are involved in, you must remember to warm up before the exercise really starts. Do not just plunge into the water and start thrashing about, to put it figuratively.
Your body needs to reach a certain level of readiness before it can actually start responding to exercise. And this readiness is achieved by the warming up process.
96.
Do not carry your mobile phone around but leave it a place where you can hear it ringing. In this way you make sure that you at least get up and walk towards it. This might sound sill but I really mean it. You need a reason to keep yourself going. Life today has become so easy that we have every thing at our fingertips. All we have to do is push a button here and push a button there. The only things
that get any exercise at all are our fingers. Years ago Charles Darwin put forward a theory of use and disuse. According to this theory, a certain part of the body that is put to constant use
develops a lot and a certain part of the body that has no use at all becomes smaller and smaller and gradually ceases to exist.
Certain examples that he quoted were the long neck of the giraffe, which appeared to become longer and longer when the giraffe stretched higher and higher to reach the leaves at the treetops. He quoted the example of the absence of a tail in human beings to illustrate the example of the theory of disuse. Now if Darwin’s theory were to prove true, as the years go by man is likely to
end up with just a huge head, a few fingers and maybe some other parts of the body that are also put to use. That is why I made it a point to say that you have to drive your self to move about. A cell phone may be convenient, but the same thing can turn out to
simplify life just a little too bit. There are other arguments against the use of cell phones but that is beside our topic.
What I would suggest is that at home or in your office, leave the cell phone lying about so that you can hear it ring, but can’t just reach into your pocket and answer it. See to it that you have to actually stand up and walk a few steps before you can pick it up.
97.
While traveling in an elevator instead of just standing there and staring stupidly at the numbers going up or down, try raising your self onto your toes and then back on your feet again. Do this several times. Also try flexing your buttock muscles as well.
In fact there are many muscles in our body that we can twitch and flex without inviting the attention of others. Even if others do notice you, its no big deal provided you are flexing a muscle in a decent part of the body. (Most of the other parts do not have muscles any way.) Others might brand you as a health freak but it is miles better to be known as a heath freak than as a sack of potatoes.
98.
Undress and stare at yourself in front of your mirror. If what you see displeases you, then you have all the more reason to work out. Try tucking in the extra fat in all those wide areas, this will give you an idea of which part you need to be working on.
Turn to you side and get a very good view of your side profile. This is an excellent way of checking whether you have a tummy that is starting to bulge or has bulged already.
Try pulling in air and then take a look at your tummy, if it has gone in even a little bit, there is hope for you. If you start now, you can control it where it is now and may be if you really set your mind to it, you can lose a couple of inches in a just a few weeks.
Weighing your self on your bathroom scales is a good idea but personally I would recommend this mirror viewing. To be very frank, a few pounds gain may shock you but does not really disgust you. But a flabby figure and extra fat certainly will.
99.
If you have a banister rail or a balustrade that will support you, sit on it and pump your legs as if you are riding a bicycle, taking care not to fall off of course.
This might sound like another crazy idea and I don’t want to argue with you about that. I just want to tell you that by doing such crazy things, you are in fact not missing a single chance to lose those extra pounds. It is a way of keeping your mind alert all the time. Every thing must look like an opportunity to you.
100.
Do not slouch in your chair but try to maintain an erect posture with your tummy tucked in. Slouching is a very bad habit. Not only is it bad for your back but it also gives you a very flabby figure. It is your way of saying yes to a comfortable, weight-gaining pose.
Make it a point to always sit as erect as you can. It is also a terrific way to ward off back problems.
101.
Psst. I would like to let you in on a secret. As it is I understand that most of us tend to put on weight particularly in the mid section, right. It is the tummy that seems to have a mind of its own. Well I will tell you a sure shot method to reduce the flab around the waist line. Mind you this doesn’t hold true for post pregnancy tummies. This is what you have to do. Breathe in air as strongly as you can and as you do so, tuck in your tummy as much as you can. Hold it like this for a few seconds and then slowly release your breath taking care not to let out your tummy. Try to keep breathing like this at least fifty or sixty times in a day.
In fact breathe like this whenever you can remember to do so. After the first day, you should feel the muscles of your stomach tightening each time you do this. Then you know that you are on the right track. If you practice this without fail for 20 days, at the end of the twentieth day, you will have lost at least an inch.
Below I have included a table of the various exercises and the number of calories that can be burnt with each exercise. Choose what you can do best and choose something that you will enjoy doing on the long run as well.
The choice of the exercise is completely left to you but try to do whatever you wish to do for at least twenty minutes. It is only after you do the exercise for twenty minutes that the actual calorie burning sets in.
Aerobics 200-250 calories
Bicycling, Stationary 250-300 calories
Bicycling, Actual 300-400 calories
Running, 5-6 mph 300-350 calories
Stair climber 200-250 calories
Swimming laps 350 calories
Walking briskly 150-180 calories
From this you can see for your self that walking is not at all something that has to be sidelined. If you really find your days to be too full to fit in any other form of exercise, then walking is your best bet. Walk as much as you can.
Try getting to places and leaving places a little early. This will give you time to walk.
Well, I guess that’s about it. The ball is now in your court so what are you waiting for? Get rid of those extra calories and pounds as early as you can and try to enjoy life the best you can without inviting all those terrible diseases that come with a few extra pounds.



How Much Do You Know?
I have included a simple test to see how much you have grasped about the
proper way to control your diet. Go ahead and do the test, you might find it
interesting.

1) Which of the following is suitable for a between meal snack?
a) Cheese
b) Carrots
c) Yogurt
d) Coffee
e) Candy

2) How many glasses of water should a person have in a day?
a) 5-6
b) 10-20
c) 10- 12
d) 4-5
e) 15-20

3) Which of the following is bad as far as weight control is concerned?
a) snacking
b) smoking
c) coffee
d) crash diets
e) all the above

4) How many hours sleep does an adult need?
a) 7-8
b) 6-7
c) 8-9
d) 5-6
e) 9-10

5) Which is better for a person on a diet?
a) fresh fruit
b) canned fruit
c) fruit juice
d) processed fruit
e) cooked fruit

6) Which of the following should you always include in your diet?
a) nuts
b) dried fruits
c) fruit juice
d) salads
e) tea
7) Which of these two is better for your health?
a) coffee
b) tea

8) The most important meal of the day is
a) supper
b) snacks
c) break fast
d) lunch
e) tea

9) Which of the following can you afford to cut out from your diet?
a) fats
b) carbohydrates
c) vegetables
d) proteins
e) vitamins

10) Which meat is better for health?
a) white meat
b) red meat
c) raw meat

Answers:
1. b
2. c
3. e
4. a
5. a
6. d
7. b
8. c
9. a
10. a

Muscle Power
Use your brain to answer the test on the
best ways to work out.

1) Which is the best exercise among the following?
a) horse riding
b) walking
c) swimming
d) running
e) bowling
2) Before you need to work out, you need to
a) drink water
b) warm up
c) consult a trainer
d) make up your mind
e) cool off
3) You can afford to take a day off from your work out every week
a) true
b) false
4) Yoga does not help to reduce weight
a) true
b) false

5) Breathing exercises strengthen the shoulder muscles
a) true
b) false

Answers:
1. c
2. b
3. a
4. a
5. b
 

Sunday, 16 March 2014

101 “Everyday” Tips For Losing 10 Pounds (Lesson 9)


81.
Carry a soft flying disc or Frisbee with you. Toss it around and get up to fetch it. This is also an excellent way to beat stress. It makes a person feel good to throw something away forcefully when the person is all worked up. And the thing that you throw is something soft and can’t damage anything, then what is stopping you?
It is not really the throwing part that we are interested in. It is the fetching part. Each time you get up to fetch it back; you are giving yourself a chance to stretch those muscles and joints
82.
Get down at a block before your destination and walk the rest of the way. You might not have time to fit in long walks in your busy schedule so this is one way of ensuring that you at least get to walk for a little bit every day. If you take the bus or the subway, get down at an earlier station and see if you can walk the rest of the way. If you drive to work, see if you can get space in a parking lot that is a little away from your office.
83.
When nobody is watching try doing pelvic gyration exercises. If you take a moment to observe it you will see that it is the mid section of our body that gets the least bit of exercise and that is probably why the signs of weight gain are mostly seen there.
It is the same reason why we find it very difficult to lose weight in that section. So the best thing that you can do is consciously try to give that part a little bit of exercise.
Stomach crunches might be too strenuous an exercise to start off with but gyrations are relatively mild. Pelvic gyrations make you thrust your midsection towards all directions and this is the best way of tightening every muscle in that mid section and that is of course what weight loss is all about.
84.
Tuck in your tummy whenever you walk. Get that proper gait. And the best way for that is to tuck in your tummy and inflate your chest. Do not let your tummy hang above your belt line like some unruly layer of flesh. Bring it under the belt. Each time you tuck in your tummy, you will feel the pressure on the muscles of your stomach. This tightening and loosening of these muscles is even
better than stomach crunches.
85.
Try breathing exercises. You might be surprised to know that breathing exercises too can lead to weight loss. If you are doing the breathing exercises properly, you will find that you can exert a lot of pressure on the muscles around the mid section. You can feel a tightening of these muscles each time you breathe in or breathe out. So go ahead and breathe properly, it is good for you.
86.
Try yoga. Yoga is one of the best ways of losing weight. Of course I can’t go into a full lecture about yoga over here but I can tell you that I have never seen people with better-toned bodies than those who practice yoga. One of the benefits of yoga is that you learn to control virtually every muscle and joint of your body so that the issue of weight gain will cease to exist.
87.
Try massaging your partner. This is a fun way to lose weight. It is something that can give your partner a lot of pleasure and at the same time can give you a lot of exertion there by leading to weight loss. The attitude over here should of course be you scratch my back I will scratch yours. It should not be a one sided effort or else the interest will soon dwindle. In fact it is a good idea if a couple takes up weight loss routines together. They can keep watch over each other, help control those urges to eat and motivate each other to stick to the routine. There are a lot of things that couples can do together that can help them to keep physically active.
88.
If you can’t think of any thing else to do try punching your pillow. Now here’s another one of those weird ideas but believe me it works. Not too many of us have punching bags at home and if you have really fluffy pillow giving it a good punching routine is just as good as anything else. This is also a nice way of letting off steam so go for it. After all something is better than nothing. But I would suggest that you do not hit it too violently or else the stuffing might come out. Do not bother too much about the force with which you hit the pillow. It is number of hits that are important. Try to get at least fifty punches in one bout. I would like to give you a little tip over here. If there is somebody that you particularly dislike like your boss or your neighbor, or may be your ex boy friend or girl friend, try fixing a picture of the persons head on the top of
your pillow and then try punching it. I promise you, it will give you a lot of satisfaction.
89.
Instead of waddling up and down the staircase, try taking them two at a time. Now this is something that you have to be careful about because we do not want you to trip. So when you do this make sure that your feet are well and truly planted on each step before you increase the beat and try two at a time.
90.
If you have a dog, take it for a run and let the dog lead you on. You will be surprised as to how much exercise a dog can give you.
Animals are sensible enough to know that they need a lot of exercise so let your animal lead you on. Take your pet dog out for as walk and before you know what hit you, it will turn out to be a run.